People get very attached to a scientific mindset and that’s where I’ve noticed scary justifications can happen—people of x type are like y therefore z. I prefer the side of MBTI that is massive amounts of research on job/relationship happiness. Regardless of how accurate/inaccurate those are (and how accurate/inaccurate people’s self-assements are) I find they often bring forth interesting ideas. “This type of person is likely to do x”..have I seen that to be true? When isn’t it true?
Posts tagged mbti
Posted 1 week ago
Answering anons
I want to get caught up on my ask box. I’ll try and do an answer set a week.
Posted 2 weeks ago
I was ignoring packing. Too much energy is required to pack things. Just doesn’t sound enjoyable. Then my current landlord was being an ass. Ben (INTJ) was a sweet heart with helping me. It’s funny when I seem like the grumpy T and he’s the chipper F. (Also, thanks for the wishes! <3 you guys. Still on the look :/ )
Posted 3 weeks ago
It’s very easy for an NJ to stress out and get hard locked into the future they see. One thing I value about the ENFP that is closest to me, is her ability open paths. Show options I couldn’t see.
Posted 4 weeks ago
I once knew an INTP in an unhappy relationship, there was a lot of emotion he didn’t want to talk to his partner about. He had undergone a depression that I think separated them a bit (didn’t talk about what was going on just got into the habit of not talking). Le sigh. I’ve fallen in love with two INTPs in the past. The first was reasonably good about expressing his feelings to me but, bad at resolving things to get what he wanted. The last one avoided discussion of feelings.
Posted 4 weeks ago
I adore the INTJs in my life, I seem to collect them. I used to find them bewildering and have conflict that was misunderstanding more than anything.
Posted 1 month ago
I value a clean email inbox more than a clean room. I’m afraid I’m quite oblivious to my environment most of the time.
Posted 1 month ago
There was an INFJ that rubbed me the wrong way because he didn’t deal with emotion, he just bottled it up. Seeing someone running from emotional honesty, when that should be as natural as breathing, irked me beyond measure. I do have to acknowledge that there have been times in my life when I’ve run from it. Those have always been unhealthy and always been a matter of putting off dealing with what I need to. It’s something that I’m annoyed when I do.
Posted 1 month ago
I hate the idea of using mbti as an excuse to stereotype or not look into people any further.
I'm an INFJ. I love people. I love analyzing them. You'll find some of my thoughts here. I do a doodle a day, seven days a week. I'm going until the thoughts empty out of my head.
