Posts tagged estp shadow

Posted 11 months ago

When drained it’s easy to use your shadow to attack and push others away. I find when I’m tapped out being on the offensive becomes easier. It does however leave me feeling drained in a different way. It is still neat when I can be more direct with people, care less about feelings and more about ideas. It is unfortunate when I realize being INFJ soft would have worked possibly better.

Posted 11 months ago

I had read about my shadow being an ESTP but, it hadn’t really clicked. I’ve been referred to as a grumpy ISTP by INTJ friends. I usually don’t become more outgoing when I’m stressed. Then I had one of those “A-hah!” lightbulb moments. It’s not a matter of being an extravert or an introvert it’s Ti before Se or Se before Ti. Reading on INFJ and ENFJ in the Recognising Stress” section, shows a bit of that difference.

Posted 1 year ago

I was ignoring packing. Too much energy is required to pack things. Just doesn’t sound enjoyable. Then my current landlord was being an ass. Ben (INTJ) was a sweet heart with helping me. It’s funny when I seem like the grumpy T and he’s the chipper F. (Also, thanks for the wishes! <3 you guys. Still on the look :/ )