It’s odd to me to want information entirely locked up. I don’t think people always want it to be (“I don’t want you telling anyone that I like him! But..if you’re talking to him and I happen to come up, maybe you’ll mention something cool I did?”). I prefer to trust people with things, inform them of which things I tell few people but, trust that they won’t misuse any information I give them.
Posts tagged INFJ
Posted 3 days ago
Said by an INTP friend when we were talking about relationships. I was like “oh, man! Extraverted feeling…it’s a pain sometimes.” The desire to harmonize can be obnoxious.
Posted 4 days ago
I don’t think I’ve started with hey…actual statement is context appropriate friendly gesture. The opener usually being a sad half-smile and a sigh/shrug.
Posted 5 days ago
During my annual review a couple months ago, my boss commented on how with most people/teams he gives them assistance with political things and, he doesn’t seem to need to do that for me. I was really happy to hear that. I was hiding under my hands when I sent him the email that start with “…help?” Nothing too dramatic, just leaping forward and stumbling into a growling ESTJ (whose grit I normally appreciate).
Posted 6 days ago
I find that I now have a complimentary skill set to that possessed by my INTJ friends. Once you learn to be soft with each other’s weak spots a lot of mutual growth and support can happen.
Posted 1 week ago
Normally I can get by without getting introvert time for a while. But, when I’m stressed I need more and find people extravert’ing at me to be more stressful
Posted 1 week ago
Answering anons
I want to get caught up on my ask box. I’ll try and do an answer set a week.
Posted 2 weeks ago
I was ignoring packing. Too much energy is required to pack things. Just doesn’t sound enjoyable. Then my current landlord was being an ass. Ben (INTJ) was a sweet heart with helping me. It’s funny when I seem like the grumpy T and he’s the chipper F. (Also, thanks for the wishes! <3 you guys. Still on the look :/ )
I'm an INFJ. I love people. I love analyzing them. You'll find some of my thoughts here. I do a doodle a day, seven days a week. I'm going until the thoughts empty out of my head.
