Posts tagged ESFJ

Posted 3 months ago

The woes of a devil’s advocate. It wasn’t an argument in the raised voices, heated discussion sense. Just two different options and conflicting opinions. I had thoughts on both sides of the discussion and wanted to make sure we covered everything. I don’t devil’s advocate things people are emotional about, but ideas and game mechanics I reflexively do.

Posted 2 years ago

I like SFJs but, I feel like I’m very alien to them. We seem to get each other except for those moments when we realize we’re on different worlds. The ESFJ programmer I know, is a rock. For the team he was on he kept picking up hats/different roles.

Posted 2 years ago

Direct quote. The SJ drive for stability is one I can respect though, when things are in motion they’re a lot more stressed out.

Posted 2 years ago

I’ve run into the territory of ENFJs & ESFJs, unknowingly. Not an enjoyable experience. (Although telling the ExFJ creative director that their stuff is inconsistent wasn’t the wisest move, in my defense I didn’t know his title…)

Posted 3 years ago

Sensors that are also Feelers use either Se & Fi or Si & Fe. Feeling and sensing paired as extroverted & introverted. All the SFs I know much more emotionally in the moment than other types I know. Feel the feelings you’re feeling now.

Posted 3 years ago

Extraverted Feeling from an S (hooked into Si rather than Ni) feels very different. It’s interesting that one can still match it for Fe-Ni extraverted feeling. Very emotionally charged conversation, fun game to play.

Posted 3 years ago

I had this problem until the first time I fell in love. Prior to that it was so easy to make others emotions a barometers for success. Any Fi users do this? I suspected not, because I’ve only seen this as a common thread in Fe users I know. Perhaps, it’s wanting to be wanted. But, the focus being on does he like me rather than do I like one isn’t how you make a successful relationship…

Posted 3 years ago

I read people in general, I know how to comfort random strangers. But I don’t have a 6th sense for people that are close to me (I can read them better than strangers, but I don’t out of the blue sense something). The NFPs I know seem to have this sense about “their people”. Fi/Fe users, what say you?

Posted 3 years ago

I adore and can never comprehend SJs. They have skills that just don’t compute with me. I can’t help but smile at the thought of my favorite ESTJ. He often had no idea what I was talking about, but if I brought up a real world immediate problem, he would get an immediate solution.