Sometimes INTPs say things that remind me they have Fe (extraverted feeling) and I want to give them lots of hugs. (I don’t, because I respect boundaries and most the INTPs I know, dislike unexpected hugs.) The INTP I work with is in his late 40s, very pragmatic about who he can help with what. He has moments where he’s a bit sad he can’t make all the people happy. He usually shrugs it off like a thing shouldn’t matter.